Lately, every meal is a struggle (to me). Kiharu used to be a very good eater and would not stop feeding herself. But I know just as everything else, there is always a cycle. Since we came back from the trip, she seems to lost interest in eating (except snack). Not that she doesn't eat (please don't worry), but she would be very slow, or show less enthusiasm. I tried different method- encouragement, time out, upset tone, calm tone, or even silent cold war... she doesn't seem to care. She could just sit there for two hours not moving much at all.
Grandma told me to feed her, but I refused. We came this far to train her to eat by herself, she is certainly capable in doing so. Yes, rice became cold, I would sometimes reheat for her, but there are times, it's useless. I know she is only 2.5 yrs old, and someday when I think back, I know this is definitely not worth to fight for.....but right now, that's what we are going thru, perhaps it's part of the learning & growing process....
As for Yoshi, he changed from the slow eater to the best eater. There are times he would even ask for more food.....
(this is probably the image inside Nori's mind, melt his heart....... and.....
...... this is the image I see most of the time.... always up to something no good ... ^_^)